Change your health behaviour by reflecting on your values

Changing behaviour is not easy.  Often we fall into bad habits such as skipping exercise and eating unhealthy food.
For people at high risk of neglecting their health, often hearing messages about healthy eating and exercise falls on deaf ears, and instead can lead to a fear or avoidance response.  It’s all too easy to think “I’ll start tomorrow,” no matter how often we hear about the benefits of healthy behaviours.

A new study by Falk et al. (2015) showed that focusing on values that are personally important to an individual can help people to then act on health advice which they previously perceived as threatening.

Participants were given typical advice about health behaviour like they would receive from a doctor, and underwent neurological scans.  Prior to receiving advice, half of the participants were lead through a self affirmation exercise where they reflected on what’s important to them, such as work or family.  Those who did the self affirmations showed more behaviour change, in a follow up one month after the initial study.

The authors of the study state:

“Neural responses associated with self-related processing and value in response to an otherwise threatening health communication intervention can be changed using self affiramaton….
These findings suggest that affirmation of core values may exert its effects by allowing at-risk individuals to see the self-reference and value in otherwise-threatening messages.”

So what does this mean for you?  Are you sitting on the fence of change?  Before you seek out information, why don’t you think about your values around the change.  For example – you know exercise is a good thing, but just can’t be bothered….why not think about what matters to you first.  Do you value looking after your family?  Think about how change may make you a better parent/sister/etc.  Would better health impact your value of looking after your family?

Think about your values – they might just help you to achieve some serious goals!!

Adjusting to Motherhood

Last September Lachy and I become proud parents to Dashiel Hunter Doley.  I still feel so lucky to have such a beautiful baby!  Although, for any new mum, adjusting to the pressures of looking after a newborn is not easy.  I thought today I’d write about some of the things that have helped me to feel more in control again.

1)  Exercise – get out and about with the pram
One of the best things you can do for your mental health is a walk every day.  Now that you’re attached at the hip to a small child, getting to the gym won’t be so easy.  A walk with the pram is wonderful for breaking up the monotony of being house bound, clears the head, helps get bub to sleep and is great for fitness.

2)  Get out of the house every day
Being home all day is incredibly isolating, especially when previously easy tasks like tidying up or popping to the shops are so much more difficult.  I found that making an effort to go out somewhere every day makes a massive difference – whether it be a coffee or lunch with a friend or just going out for a hair appointment, doctor’s appointment, trip to the shops or whatever….whilst it might take me a long time to get out the door, I feel so much better for doing so.

3)  Spend some time reconnecting with things you enjoy
I’ve made a conscious effort to try and do things like pick up my guitar, to try and bake something new and to get back into writing blog posts.  Some days it might take forever to do any one of those things but even 20 minutes of doing something you enjoy while baby is sleeping is truly wonderful.
4) Join a new mothers group
I’ve actually really enjoyed joining a mothers group – it’s fantastic to be able to speak to mothers going through the same things at the same time and to ask all those poop related questions you’re too embarrassed to discuss with your non-mother friends.
5)  Accept that some days things will be out of your control
I think I really struggled with not being able to have control over my day.  There are those days where the baby does not want to stop crying or does not want to go to sleep where you just can’t get anything done.  I’m gradually learning that at this point in my life, my priority needs to be Dash.  It all pays off when I see him smile!!
6)  Enlist help!
We’ve started using a cleaner once a fortnight and I have to say it has been such a big help!  I honestly don’t know how I would get to all the housework otherwise.  Two hours a fortnight has made a massive difference.  Otherwise asking for help from friends or family to help out when you’re having a rough day is really important!!  A friend recently delivered me some home cooked meals, and it was the best gift I could have been given!!
7)  Make time to enjoy your maternity leave!
I’m on a mission to make sure I get the most out of my maternity leave by doing activities I won’t be able to do once I’m back at work, like mum and bubs movies, and guided art tours at the museum.  It’s a great way to spend time with your bub and with other mums.
Motherhood is a massive adjustment, but like all things in life, it gets easier with time….and the rewards are absolutely wonderful!!

Set Goals, not Resolutions

It’s the new year which means new year’s resolutions.  How many years have you found yourself setting resolution after resolution to lose weight, make more money, give up junk food etc, only to find that it’s February and you haven’t been to the gym in weeks, and have just eaten a chocolate brownie!!

Why is it that new year’s resolutions don’t work?  Simply put, they are often overly generalised or vague, and don’t have the specificity and planning which is needed to help us succeed.

My advice – set goals (and make them good ones!!).

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Here are some simple principles to put in to play which have been demonstrated to help people achieve their goals.

1)  Goals must be specific!!  Want to lose weight?  How much do you want to lose?  In what time frame do you want to achieve it?  How will you measure it?
Goals that are both specific and difficult lead to the highest performance (Locke, 1996).  Making a goal specific helps us direct our action clearly and makes us more likely to achieve a difficult goal.

2)  We need to be committed to our goals, particularly when they are difficult.  Our commitment to goals comes through our belief that the goal is important (Locke, 1996).  When setting your goals, reflect on how important you feel it is that you achieve it.  Did you set the goal yourself, or are you trying to please someone else?

3)  Self efficacy and our feeling of competence to achieve a goal fosters goal achievement.  Do you feel that you have the skills or abilities to achieve your goal?  If not, what will help you to feel more confident?  Do you need a mentor, or perhaps additional resources like materials or information.  The more empowered you feel, the more likely you are to achieve your goal!

4)  Set implementation intentions.  Implementation intentions are the small situational cues we set in line with our goals, which prompt us to take action.  For example, your goal is to spend one hour each day studying.  Your implementation intentions may include the exact time you plan on studying (6pm each night), where you will do it (the desk in your room, with the TV off), the materials you need to do it (notepad, textbook, highlighters).  Setting implementation intentions has been shown to increase goal attainment on difficult tasks (Gollwitzer, 1999).

5)  Write it down and share it with others!!  You’re much more likely to succeed if you put your goal in writing, and enlist the support of others by sharing it with them!!

I hope this has helped with a touch of motivation to start 2015!!  What are you goals for the new year?

References

Gollwitzer, P.M.  (1999).  Implementation intentions:  Simple effects of simple plans.  American Psychologist, 54(7), 493-503

Locke, E.  (1996).  Motivation through conscious goal setting.  Applied and Preventative Psychology, 5(2), 117-124

Lemon Bars

Keeping with my lemon themed baking (see my lemon yoghurt cake here!!), I decided to give these delicious lemon bars a go!!  They’re based on the recipe from the Tartine Cookbook, but I saw the recipe on the Late Afternoon Blog and they looked so good I had to give them a go!!

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Sometimes I have those days where I get it all wrong!!  I attempted these two nights ago after just getting my little baby to sleep.  After making a beautiful base and having the filling ready to go, I some how managed to burn the hell out of the base, set off the smoke alarm and wake my poor bubba!!   I didn’t have enough butter left to try and re-bake the base so had to throw away my filling after hand squeezing so many lemons!! 🙁 Baking fail!!
My oven seems to be set to overdrive so today I tried again but made a few temperature tweaks.

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It was worth the second try!!  They look impressive, but were actually quite easy to make.  They’re very sweet, so I’ll be having mine with coffee!!  They also keep in the fridge for 4 days.

 

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Ingredients:
Crust 
1/2 cup icing sugar
1 1/2 cups all purpose flour
3/4 cups unsalted butter at room temp
 
Filling
1/2 cup all purpose flour
2 1/4 cups caster sugar
1 cup freshly squeezed lemon juice (approx 5 large lemons)
6 large whole eggs
1 large egg yolk
 
Directions :
Pre-heat the oven to 175 Degrees Celsius and butter 9 by 13 inch pan.
To make the crust, sift the sugar into the bowl of an electric mixer. Add the flour and butter. Beat on low speed until you get a nice soft dough. Evenly spread the dough on the bottom of your buttered pan (I just patted it down with my fingers).
Bake for 15 – 20 minutes, or until the crust is golden brown. Make sure the crust is cooked evenly.
While the crust bakes, prepare the filling. Sift the flour into a mixing bowl. Add the sugar and mix together. Add the lemon juice and a little bit of lemon zest. Stir until the sugar has dissolved. Next add all of the eggs and whisk well.
When the crust is ready, pull out the oven rack keeping the pan on the rack and pour the filing directly into the hot pan. Drop the temp down to 150 Degrees Celcius  and bake for 25 minutes or until the filling is no longer wobbly.
Let cool almost all the way through. Cut into rectangles, top with powdered sugar and serve.

Christmas Inspiration

Christmas time is officially here!!  What are your Christmas traditions?  As I get older I have become a sucker for Christmas time and absolutely love decorating the tree, shopping for presents and baking Christmas cookies.  I thought I’d share some photos of our (small) Christmas tree and a few of the festive touches I’ve added to our home this year.
Even though Dash is only 12 weeks old, Christmas time seems so much more magical now we’ve become a family!!
I wanted to order birth announcement cards for family and friends after Dashiel was born but had missed the boat.  I ordered these fantastic Christmas cards in a gift tag shape from Minted and thought they would make a wonderful substitute.
The wonderful photo of Dash was taken by Victoria Poulton Photography
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I’ve started an annual tradition with friends – baking cookies!!  This year, we did Vanilla Snap Cookies and Gingerbread Men.  The decorating is the fun part!!
Christmas Tree Decorations – Country Road
String Lights (wall) – Freedom
Gift Cards – Minted.com

10 Simple Habits to Feel Happier

Want to feel happier?  A study by the University of Hertfordshire identified 10 habits proven to make people happier and examined how frequently people perform those habits.
Here are the ten habits!   Why not give them a try?
  • Giving: do things for others
  • Relating: connect with people
  • Exercising: take care of your body
  • Appreciating: notice the world around
  • Trying out: keep learning new things
  • Direction: have goals to look forward to
  • Resilience: find ways to bounce back
  • Emotion: take a positive approach
  • Acceptance: be comfortable with who you are
  • Meaning: be part of something bigger

 

The survey showed that Self Acceptance may have a strong link to happiness and life satisfaction, but that people often don’t put it into practice.  The authors of the study gave the following tips to help increase your self acceptance.
  • Be as kind to yourself as you are to others. See your mistakes as opportunities to learn. Notice things you do well, however small
  • Ask a trusted friend or colleague to tell you what your strengths are or what they value about you
  • Spend some quiet time by yourself. Tune in to how you’re feeling inside and try to be at peace with who you are.

Nursery Makeover

The most exciting part of moving into our new home has been setting up the nursery!!  With only a few days until our little one arrives, we’ve just added the finishing touches to his new room.  After many months of obsessive nesting, everything is finally ready to go…although my poor VISA card is a little worse for wear!!

Now we just need the baby!!

When we moved in, the paint was a drab half duck egg blue, half slightly pink combination.  After some narrowly avoided paint colour arguments in Bunnings, we decided on Dulux Shimmer Quarter.  This is now my favourite room in the house!!
We wall mounted some of our favourite Ikea Kallax shelves to store all his new toys and books.
My favourite purchase would have to be these gorgeous baby animals prints by the animal print shop.  
I wanted to find some grey chevron curtains but couldn’t find them anywhere in Sydney, so I ordered them to be custom made from Etsy, and they turned out beautifully!!
Chair – Freedom 
Change Table – Cocoon
Bassinet – Cocoon
Rug – Ikea
Side Table – Replica
Sock Monkey – Matt Blatt
Pram – iCandy
Mobile – Mamas and Papas
Zebra Print and baby animal prints – The Animal Print Shop 
Hang it all – Replica

Lemon Yoghurt Cake

 So at 39.5 weeks pregnant, what better way to pass the time than to bake a delicious lemon yoghurt cake!!

This is a super easy cake to make and tastes delicious.  I’ve tried a few different recipes, and this one is the best!

While I seem to be getting rounder by the day, keeping busy has been a good distraction from the aches, pains and tiredness of the downward slope of the last trimester.

….and the plus side of being pregnant, is that I can sample the goods guilt free!!
Dress – Metalicus
Lipstick – NARS Dragon Girl 

Living in Green Spaces Improves Mental Health

Ever wondered why you feel happier when you’re in nice surroundings?

A new study by Alcock, White, Wheeler, Fleming and Depledge (2014) examined the long term effects of living in green areas on mental health.
The study followed 1000 participants over five years.  Results showed that the participants who relocated to less green areas, showed significantly worse mental health in the year following the move!!  However, people who moved to greener areas felt an immediate improvement in mental health and those effects were sustained!!
Considering relocating?  Alcock et al, (2014) found that the positive mental health benefits of living in a greener space could be measured for up to three years!!Are you like me and live in an apartment in the inner city?  More reason than ever to get out in the sunshine for a daily walk!!
Hat – Topshop
Sunglasses – Rayban
Shorts – Somedays Lovin
Lipstick – Mac – Impassioned

Best quick fix beauty buys

These are some of my favourite quick fix beauty buys for those days when I’m not feeling so fab!!  I know I seem to have a red theme going on here, but red lips or nails have a way of making me feel instantly put together (even when I’m not!!).

1.  Aesop Primrose cleaning masque – great for combatting spots and redness

2.  Lush bathbomb – yes it looks hideous, but its full of bubbles and smells delicious!

3.  Essie nailpolish in really red – it’s really red!!

4.  Nars velvet lip pencil in Dragon Girl – goes on like a dream and has serious staying power – no liner needed!

5.  Reference of Sweden Argan Oil – apply every time hair is wet to help combat frizz and smooth hair

6.  The tangle teezer – best. hairbrush. ever.  Another hideous looking product that is seriously awesome.

7.  Paw Paw ointment – old favourite for hydrated lips, hands etc – nothing beats it, especially in Winter.  Also great for various baby skin concerns.

8.  Bodyshop foot file – to slough those hooves

9.  Dermalogica Daily Microfoliant – powder based exfoliant that’s gentle but seriously brightens

What are your favourite “drab to fab” products?